Question: Dear Luise: Where do I find the steps dils put in place for the separation of mother and son.  i have 6 sons – 4 of them are married and 2 of the dils can cause incredible drama.  How do I get into the motherinlawsunite website.  I have tried. G.

Answer: Dear G.: Please try again. I have renamed that Website. It is now www.WiseWomenUnite.com because so many really wonderful daughter in laws joined who had troublesome mother in laws. Both situations are really tough.

Once on WWU, go back to the very first post. It is about how adult sons can be systematically “cut from the herd” so to speak by insecure daughter in laws. Blessings, Luise.

5 Responses to www.MotherInLawsUnite.com

  1. heartbroken April 8, 2011 at 6:50 am #

    Mine is a tale of woe for the past 20 years. My son left his wife and baby and went with another women
    and married her. My first dil did not want us to see the baby until I took her mediation and finally she let us see her once every three weeks for 3 hours, since we did not live close to her it took us 1hour to get to her and an hour back, we did this for about 9 years until the little girl was 14 always knowing that the mother would tell her mean things and tell her to have us buy her things, which we did gladly, when she was about 14 years old she didnt want to go with us anymore and we never heard from her again. She is now 20. My other son married a christian girl and converted to baptist and she refuses to come to our home with the children, we have gone there but a grandmother likes the children to visit and fuss over them, I am never allowed to do this. I have decided not to go there anymore its a three hour drive and the boys are at the age now that they want to hang with grandma and grandpa and unless I send a gift I never hear from them and then its an email from the dil saying thank you, I never know if the kids really got the gift or not. My last son married a nice girl but unfortunately she has a rare disease and does not want to have any children. All I ever wanted was to be a grandma with all my children and grandchildren around me, but its not to be. Is it wrong that I lavish my love on other peoples grandchildren, sometimes the depression is so bad I cant function
    tell me what to think

    • Luise April 21, 2011 at 5:20 pm #

      Please come over to my Web-forum where issues regarding adult children and extended families are discussed and support can be found. http://www.Wise WomenUnite.com

  2. K. November 12, 2013 at 4:09 pm #

    I am having problems with the site it keeps freezing. But I will continue. I think I might be able to get the support I need hear.
    My problem is confusing and will look like a book I will try to down size before I enter it in here. I right now bounce between anger with my daughter for being so blind and depression that the relationship we have had has been destroyed by the influence of my son in law. K.

    • Luise Volta November 14, 2013 at 7:24 am #

      K. Please come over to my Web-forum where your issue can be addressed beyond the question and answer venue I use here. Blessings, Luise

  3. Cheryl Fluet February 13, 2017 at 12:35 am #

    I want to place something on this site.
    My husband of 44 years passed,away 4 years ago. While he was not a nice man to me or a good man to me I tolerated his and his mother’s verbal abuse for the sake of raising my children.
    At times I needed to work 4 jobs to make ends meet. He stopped working in 1993 because his work closed.
    I guess he didn’t want to search. He told me he wasn’t ever going back to work. And he didn’t.
    After his passing, we had a friend living with us at the time.
    Our friend stayed with me and got me through the hard times.
    2 1/2 years later we fell in love.
    My problem is my oldest son. 48 years old he tells me I’m senile,I’m old,I do not know what live is, that my fiancee’ doesn’t love me because he’s had sex before
    I wonder if my son thinks he got here by the ” Immaculate Conception?”
    I have had to tell my son to leave us alone and cut him out of my life. My son doesn’t work even though my fiancee works as a musician and singer and is good at what he does.
    My son criticizes me daily because I live my fiancee.
    My son thinks he is smarter than anyone in the world,especially me, he knows everything.
    I just do not like what my son has become and I need him out of my life.
    Hoping I am doing the right thing.

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