My Children Hate Me

Question: Dear Luise: My grown children all of a sudden seem to hate me and have said some really hurtful things to me. i have always put there needs ahead of mine untill they were old enough to be on their own. everything was fine untill just a month ago and my mother i suspect has a lot to do with it. J.

Answer: Dear J.: Please come over to the Website I have created for the women facing these issues because it is the question most often asked here. We offer a supportive community at . Blessings, Luise

3 Responses to My Children Hate Me

  1. sara October 10, 2014 at 10:28 pm #

    I could of been taken away from me home from my parents. to this day my mother admits no wrong. In her eyes she’s perfect. My sister will have nothing to do with her, and their are many days I wish I didn’t. I could wright for days about the things my mom denies. Becuse of my bad parents I will not have children of my own. I have to be the adult in my family and say no to having children. Only people prepared to be good to there children should have them. Stupied people should not breed, its jest the truth. Why not try to understand what they have been threw

  2. Machele February 15, 2017 at 8:11 am #

    To all of us who reached this site has been desperately looking for answers. I too have a daughter with 5 kids. She is a horrible mother and she is teaching her kids to have the same disrespect and anger and hatred that she has towards me!!!1 She lives with me (possible today I am struggling with putting her and her kids out) . She has put her hands on me twice and her 13 year daughter put her hands on me 3 weeks ago. I have tried everything I know how to try to “mend broken fences” but her hatred towards me is to dark and too deep to continue to deal with. She won’t pay bills, she don’t clean up, she don’t cook for her kids, she don’t even say goodbye to them when they leave for school. She sleeps so much that she don’t even know how her kids are dressed and loosks when they leave for schoo. She does not discipline her kids and when I do, it is a problem. I am going to get on my knees and ask God to help me and them……but it has come to the point that I have to put her and her kids out of my home. My heart hurts deeply but I cannot continue to leave the rest of my life like this!!!!!!!!

  3. Jean Arnett October 27, 2018 at 8:02 pm #

    It seems today in the 2018 grown married kids are very self centered and do not have any respect for their parents, we were good parents we are human and made mistakes but always told our two kids we love them, took very good care of them encouraged them in their dreams and was always there for them. Since they both got married our son has very little to do with us because its all about his wife family always comes first we have met her parents they are nice people but we can see our daughter-in-law is codependence with her parents and she has one sister one brother drama drama . We are sick of it seriously thinking about moving out of state. So when they decide at their convince to come over to see us we can say sorry were are no longer there 8 miles away from them. They are welcome to come see us in another state!

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