Question: My partner and I have a sexless relationship. Part of this is because she has a medical condition but another part is because I don’t find her attractive sexually. We met via a dating site and after many failed romances I met my partner. Initially as friends, who then went on holiday and after a while decided to “give it a go”. Unfortunately romance has never been part of our relationship, it appears to be more a case of being practical and better than being alone. Do you think this is worth perservering with or calling it a day? Please help. P.
Answer: Dear P.: I think you have a good foundation to build a live-in relationship on. Sexuality often brings people together…but what more than often keeps them together is mutual respect, friendship, loyalty. Stuff like that. Blessings, Luise