Question: Dear Luise: I am 22. a single mom.when i was PG there is ths man who served me in hospital.months later on after giving birth he met me online.he showed interest and we became so close.he told me he has a marriage problem and he is on divorce process.right now he is in europe,he went by a scholarship.his wife is back here.i am too.honest i hav a growing feeling towards him.and he wants a relationship.how can i prove its true he is divorcing because i dont want to deal with man in another marriage? N.
Answer: Dear N.: What you do is ask for a copy of the divorce decree and then check further with the local authorities to make sure it isn’t a fake. He may be totally on the up and up. However, men have used the “My wife doesn’t understand me and I am getting a divorce” story for as long as there have been men and women on the planet. If he is on the up and up, he will know that and be glad to put your mind to rest. Blessings, Luise