Question: Dear Luise: i need some help i have been having a lot of trouble with my son and his girlfriend there is nothing i can do about his girlfriend but my son i want to get him out of my life kids can divorce there mom and dads so i like to no how to get my son out of my life thank u R.
Answer: Dear R.: See an attorney to find out how to do that. There are times when it is absolutely necessary to face up to loving our adult children but not what they are doing. We do not necessarily need to enable and support that. They make choices where they are the ones who need to face the consequences. You deserve so much better. Blessings, Luise