Question: Dear Luise: I read the ladies story about her 2 grown children hating her. I have the same problem. I have been a good mother and love my children. Yet now that they are grown they want nothing to do with me. Won’t even acknowledge me as their mother. I can no longer see my grands 16, 11, and 2. I am dieing more and more everyday. I moved near my grands to be close to them and my son and his wife won’t let me see them. Its really hard to imagine anyone being that way let alone your children. They are both male. and my grands are males. Their father who was not in their life was extremely abusive. Controling, very sick man. So could my children inherited his mental illness and anger/control issues? Also is there anything I can do to be able to see my grands? B.
Answer: Dear B.: The place to address your issue is on my Web-forum at www.WiseWomenUnite.com where there are many others dealing with the same or very similar issues. You will get support there and understanding. Blessings, Luise