Question: Dear Luise: how can you have happiness when you never was able to have that and you want to be alone and no one lets you and you feel like shutting down completely and be gone from everything.i am so depressed i hurt all the time. Y.
Answer: Dear Y.: You need to have someone help you with this, one-on-one. I think most or even all joy comes from inside, not from what others are or aren’t doing. It may take a good counselor to get you past reacting to others and to situations. You really do deserve to be happy. Blessings, Luise