Question: Dear Luise: I think my mother-in-law and sister-in-law hate me. I try to talk with them, do things with them and they ignore me. I have been with my husband for 6 years now and I still know nothing about her nor my SIL. I have a very close relationship with my family. My sister and I are best friends and I never thought this would happen. When I tried to talk to her she told me I was acting like a child and that I needed to grow up. My SIL acts nice to me in front of my husband but as soon as he leaves the room she puts her nose in the air. I don’t know what to do and my husband doesn’t know what to do. We have tried everything and what makes thing worse is I have to go on a 2 week vacation next year with them and all the guys want to go play golf and I will be stuck with all the women in his family that don’t like me…well his aunt and grandmother LOVE ME! Anyways I really want to build a relationship with them but I don’t know how. Please help me and my husband. Thank you! Best Regards, M.
Answer: Dear M.: Please bring your issue over to my Web-forum where you will get the perspectives and suggestion of other women…some of whom have faced the same or a very similar issue. It feels to me like you and your husband need more support than just a single answer. You will find us at: www.WiseWomenUnite.com I hope to see you there. Blessings, Luise