Question: Dear Luise: How do I get my boyfriend closer to me? How do I know if he really loves me? I don’t understand my boyfriend any more. He has changed toward me and he still tells me he loves me. J.
Answer: Dear J.: We can’t bring people closer. They do whatever they do and that is entirely up to them. And it is very often hard to really understand others. They often don’t understand themselves. Sometimes it isn’t what they say but what they do that tells us where they are coming from.
Just be yourself and see what happens. He may not be the one for you if you are experiencing stress and feel unsure about where the relationship is headed. Blessings, Luise