Question: Dear Luise: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and the past year our sex life just hasen’t been the same.We went from having a lot of sex to having sex every other month it seems like. We live together and I am 22 and he is 25 so I dont understand why we dont have sex more. I have tried talking to him about it but he just gets frustrated and says he knows. Also, we have never said I love you and many of my friends think thats a problem. I dont want to talk to my friends about this kind of stuff anymore because they just dont understand. What do you think? S.
Answer: Dear S.: I have more letters like yours than you would think where the guy just ends it and doesn’t want to talk about it or work on the problem. I suggest you move on. You deserve a lot better. He is how he is and he’s not for you.
As far as saying “I love you,” some say it all the time and some never do. The truth it is more about how someone acts that what they say. Blessings, Luise