Question: Dear Luise: I am married 2 yrs ago. For vacation i went to my parents house then my aunt came from village and now my husband is asking me to call his mother to my parents house, but i can’t do that as my parents & my aunt has some quarrels and they are not speaking to each other from 2 yrs. So my hubby says that unless our parents speak to each other he ordered me not to come near him. Which i can’t do. so please give me some solution. P.
Answer: Dear P.: In all cultures there seems to be the situation where a husband rules. I really don’t have a solution for you because it seems to me that in all cultures love needs to involve mutual respect. You have been ordered to do something you are unable to do and have been threatened with serious consequences if you don’t comply.
It sounds like you will have to be punished for your family’s shortcomings. If this makes sense to you and complies with your concept of marriage, I think there’s a strong chance that you will get through it and he will miss you enough to come back to you. Blessings, Luise