Question: Dear Luise: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. We don’t live together. I pretty much go to his place. We are having sex twice a month now, and barely spend any time together. Is this normal? He claims that it’s because of his new work schedule, but he always seems to find time to hang out with friends. And I believe he should want to spend some of his time with me. Do you believe we’re heading for a breakup? S.
Answer: Dear S.: I would say that it is already over. On his priority list work comes first, guy pals come second and you come last. His lack of any real interest in intimacy tells you the rest, in case it’s not clear enough. You deserve a lot better than that. Move on. There is someone out there that will really appreciate you and make your heart sing. Blessings, Luise