Question: Dear Luise: my son wants start bout them a 2hr bath every nite 11pm or later i work@8ahim&girlfriend goes threw everythg…in house&steals keeps it for their own need get them out of house….cant stand it…girlfriend started hollering @me lastnite i busted her nosee…son run in &hit me…then i puched him in face law was called….they do nothing why does son hate me?? neither one works or wants 2….please help b 4 they hav me locked up! L.
Answer: Dear L.: There isn’t any way that I know of to make sense of the senseless. You can’t get into your son’s head and figure him out. Even if you could, what good would that do? My thought is to plan your escape and remove yourself from the abuse. If you own the house, sell it. If you rent, move. If you have to, go to a shelter and stay there. Stop paying the bills. You are the only one who can save yourself. You deserve so much better. Blessings, Luise