Question: Dear Luise: My question is, we have become first time grandparents and we feel like we are not. The child is almost 4 months old and has never been to our house. We live 10 min. away. When we go over to their house, it is not very friendly. We do not go over all the time. It was just once a week for maybe half-hour. If fact we stayed away for 5 weeks, hoping they would ask us over; didn’t happen. In fact my son said thanks for not coming over as they didn’t need a lot of visitors They don’t have anyone over there except for her mother all the time. I THOUGHT WE HAD A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP BUT GUESS NOT. She never says hello to yes or bye or anything. What can we do? S.
Answer: Dear S.: I wish I could tell you that such a situation is totally new to me but I can’t. Please come over to my Web-forum: www.wisewomenunite.com . It was created because so many people have the same or very similar problems.
You will be able to interact with others who are facing this , as well as with me and I hope you will find support there. Blessings, Luise