Question: Dear Luise: my son is 36. he loved me ,untill 33. he met a girl, divorced with children. she and my son lived with us for 6months. they got a home.she got pregnent. my son married her 2 years latter. then she turned my son against me. she convinced him i was guilty of my husbands sins. my son has exiled me, hates me.i have not changed.but he has. i tel him i love him in e- mails cards , but he never answers ,it has been 2 years now,i love him miss him and my grandbabies.he has broken my heart,it is hard to function, he does not care. my husband is now deseaced 9 mos. and still he wont see or talk to me. i want so badly to fix this. but don know how anymore. can you give advice? S.
Answer: Dear S.: Your situation is the one most often addressed here on my Website. I can’t believe that it happens so often…and, yes, it did happen to me, as well. It isn’t fixable…about 99% of the time. It’s just “how it is” and we have to learn how to survive.
I started a Web-forum nearly two years ago for those of us who have been caught in this trap…because we have to find a way to get past it. Please come over to: www.WiseWomenUnite.com and join a community of wonderful, caring women who will offer you understanding and support. Blessings, Luise