Question: Dear Luise: My ex-wife’s boyfriend is my first son’s best friend, how can I talk to him and give him any advice? T.
Answer: Dear T.: I wouldn’t go there. You leaned the hard way, and now it’s his turn. Most of us don’t listen…after we have fallen in love…to anything anyone says that we don’t want to hear. We see ourselves as the exception to the rule…so any prior history doesn’t apply to us.
I would suggest you stay out of it. Even if he comes to you for advice, I’d tell him that you cared enough about her to give it a try and he will have to decide for himself. Blessing, Luise