Question: Dear Luise: First off i would like to say thank you for making a site like this your very generous to lend an ear and advice Thank you, my problem is my future mother in-law she constantly ask her son to come over to do grocery shopping to anything she can think of but she never wants me around she would talk to me on the phone have laughs but doesn’t want me around I’m really sick of it it’s been going on for a long time now i spoke to my fiancé about it and he thinks I’m over reacting but if the shoe was on the other foot how would he feel i don’t think he would be pleased what do you think is going on and should i feel in a way any advice is helpful thanks in advance. R.
Answer: Dear R.: If you don’t resolve this before marriage, it will haunt you forever. Please come over to my Web-forum for women with issues in their extended families: www.WiseWomenUnite.com . I promise you will get valuable feedback there. You have every reason to be concerned. Blessings, Luise