He Won’t Move In With Me

Question: Dear Luise: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He is 39
and still lives at home with his mother. He has never lived anywhere
else. I have 2 young children which he gets on really well with. He is
a lovely man but will only stay over at the weekend saying he needs to
be at home because of his dog. He says ‘ let the future look after
itself’ and flys off the handle if I try and discuss our future
together. I just wonder if I am flogging a dead horse here and whether
I should just move on now. I am 36 soon and although this man says he
wants to have a child with me ( he has no children of his own) he says
‘it will happen when its ready’. Am I wasting my time? G.

Answer: Dear G.: I see red flags all over the place. Still living with mama? The dog is more important than you are? He manipulates you by flying off the handle? My take is move on…the guy has hang ups that preclude having a mature realtionship. You are handy on the weekends. Gather up your self respect and move on. You deserve so much better than that. Blessings, Luise

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