Question: Dear Luise: my son,who is 30&girlfriendboth in a out patient treatment in indiana,we live in ky.they dont work but everything is always aboutthem getting thier way,but they dont help with anything…they run to ind.@least once a day needs 40.00 for clinic…its really got me&his dad behind…want them find a plc..have a life be responsible….dad acts like if he puts them out andrew will go back to his drug use….please advice for my sanity…imdepressed, pissed, confused & dont know what to love husband want son do better/thx for your time!!!god bless. L.
Answer: Dear L.: Please come over to my Web-forum at www.WiseWomenUnite.com where issues with adult children and extended families are discussed. I think you would benefit from more than one person’s take on this. Also, for those of us who don’t text, it is hard to read and understand what you have written. If you would post the old fashioned way when you get over there, we’d appreciate it. Thanks. Blessings, Luise