Question: Dear Luise: My son maybe expecting a baby boy. We will soon know for sure via dna. He has tried very hard to work with this young lady, however to no avail. She has made the comment to my son that she will not allow the baby to visit my home. He has already taken steps thru the attorney generals office in our area to be a responsible father when the child is born. I am afraid she will make it difficult for me to see my grandchild. I was wondering if you had any suggestions for coping? I have a feeling I am going to need some coping skills to overcome not being part of my grandchild’s life. Sincerely, S.
Answer: Dear S.: Please come over to my Web-forum. We are at www.WiseWomenUnite.com. Yours is the type of question that requires ongoing dialogue with others who have had a similar experience. I will be there for you, too. It’s just too complex a situation to to handled in a question and answer format. Blessings, Luise