Failed Relationship

Question: Dear Luise: OK I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs and we livetogether. I am 35 and he is 27, its not really the age that bothers meBC we get along great and never have any real problems expect one, he has a problem with teenage girls, he has a past with sleeping with a lot of them before me. Put it this way when he was 24 he had a threesome with a 15 and 16 yr old and brags about it where I think its gross. His facebook most his friends are 18 or younger and that really scares me. I have tried talking about this so many times and he get defensive and tries to say its the same as the difference in our age that I’m a hippacrit. Am I or do I really need to do something about this. I mean I have a problem making love to him BC I am a woman not a child!!!!!! Help. T.

Answer: Dear T.: There is only one answer and you know what it is. The sooner you act on it the better. You deserve so much better. Blessings, Luise

 

 

3 Responses to Failed Relationship

  1. T. August 25, 2012 at 8:50 am #

    When u say act on it what do u mean? Do I try and fix it or move on?

    • Luise Volta August 26, 2012 at 7:24 am #

      T – My take is there is nothing to fix. It is how it is and it’s not working for you. You can’t help but know that on some level. I really believe you deserve so much better. Blessings, Luise

  2. H. September 3, 2012 at 11:41 pm #

    T — Please consider how mush worse this affair will be for you if you continue for years and then finally decide to be brave and dump him. You will be older and it will be harder on you emotionally. And what if you should become pregnant by this man -? He is not father material. In fact I would be concerned about him around children. H.

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