By: Luise

Luise — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:30:53 +0000

Dear M. Self-respect is what determines whether we stay or go in situations that do not nurture and support us. I would never stay but it is you we are concerned about. Life lie ahead of you. Why would you take the crumbs that are being tossed your way? Yes, you have worked hard but you have a pretty dismal result. Why not see what else life has in store? Blessings, Luise

By: M.

M. — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 16:58:04 +0000

Dear Luise: I have been married 22 months together 7 years. In the first two weeks we lost my Father in law when we were on our Honey moon and the down hill continued. At 6 months married we had our second miscarriage. Then the month that made one year wedding anniversary I discovered he was having an affair with a very older women. This whole thing has devastated me I have never felt so hurt alone and betrayed. He does not want a divorce or willing to let me go ..but it’s been 9 months and I feel horrible I think of it everyday we tried therapy it went no where. NOW get ready I find him chatting AGAIN using the old undercover name he used as his AKA this time he is talking to cross dressers I am bewildered I brought everything up he said relax nothing will ever happen again. I am only 28 and feel maybe it is time to resolve this marriage but I am so scared of in a year or so missing my life with him our marriage all my hard work with him on sooo many issues his mother would say ohhh you have a nervous Italian stomach now after years I believe he may have Hypo mania. Thank you for your ear on this just looking for an educated voice. M.

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