Which Guy Do I Choose
Question: DEAR LUISE: I LIKE 2 GUYS 1 MOVED TO ORLANDO AND I TALKED TO HIM RECENTLY AND HE TOLD ME HE LIKES ME AND HE IS MY AGE BUT THE OTHER LIVES HERE AND IS 17 AND DOESN’T KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT HIM BUT THE ONE IN ORLANDO DOES KNOW HOW I FEEL,WHAT DO I DO???? AMANDA
Answer: Dear Amanda: I think you should play the field and like both of them for the time being. You can like someone a lot without having to like only that one person.
There are a lot of guys out there and they are all different. Why get tied down? There may be security in having someone special but there is also limitation. I think it’s more fun to have a lot of friends both male and female.
And I’d play it cool about letting a guy know you liked him. Why not wait and see what he plans to do next before you say anything? You’ve got lots of time. If another girl comes along, who cares…really?
As we learn and grow, we change, and often our likes and dislikes change with us. There’s a lot to concentrate on besides guys…like schoolwork, girlfriends, sports and hobbies…to name a few. Guys are important but they aren’t the whole picture. Your life is about you, not them. They are just part of what makes it wonderful .
So, I’d stay in touch with the friends you left behind, again of both genders, and I’d make new friends, too. The more the merrier. Blessings, Luise
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