Comments on: New Relationship Full of Problems

By: Luise

Luise — Mon, 18 Dec 2006 15:51:18 +0000

Answer: Dear Confused: Good for you!! You don’t even sound confused any longer and it’s probably very wise to not be seeing anyone for a while yet. Blessings, Luise

By: confused

confused — Mon, 18 Dec 2006 10:34:26 +0000

Thank you Luise for all the advices you have given me. I have moved on with all my life. Although I am not seeing anyone, I know I have peace within. It is nice having advice from someone who understands and responds objectively. It really helped me to understand some things about myself, and to put my life in a new perspective.

By: Luise

Luise — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 00:22:47 +0000

Answer: Dear Confused: He has ended it, long ago, and you haven’t. His silence is his answer. Some people talk with words and some talk in actions. It’s time for you to focus elsewhere and get on with your life. Anything is better than this! You deserve kindness. Make room for it to happen…but not with him. Blessings, Luise

By: jovial

jovial — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 11:19:24 +0000

Dear Luise
Thank you for your advice, my relationship went from better to worse nothing changed i think like u said he is emotionally unavailable for me its true. after i sent that letter to you i kept on calling him although he kept on putting my calls on hold and he will say he will call me back because he is tired or he doesnt want to talk to me becuase he doent want to think he never did return those calls, i never gave up on him because i really wanted this to work and for him to know that im there for him he need someone to talk but all my efforts were never appreciated, then three weeks ago i decided to stop calling him because i thought maybe its his way of asking some space, then last week tuesday i was really missing him and i decided to call him but before i say anything he said he will call me back but never did, so on friday i decided to text him that he must tell me if he still wants us to be together or if he needs space or if wants to finish this off as i feel he had ignored me enough because i want to know if i should move on with my life, i told him to respond same day and he never responded to date. so i decided to take that it is over between us, do u think im being irrational about this? i mean texting was the only thing i can do as he doesnt want to talk to me. CONFUSED