Comments on: Should A Free Spirit Marry http://www.momresponds.com/419/free-spirit-marriage/ Luise Addresses Your Interests With Wisdom and Love Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:28:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Luise http://www.momresponds.com/419/free-spirit-marriage/#comment-952 Luise Thu, 28 Sep 2006 19:19:23 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/419/free-spirit-marriage/#comment-952 Dear RT: Your enthusiasm in contagious! Mr. Right is getting a live wire and that's a huge gift. There are no guarantees. We trust because that's our nature. Not to trust is a very negative space. It's so much better to embrace life and whatever it brings rather than to try to write an all-hazard insurance policy against loss that precludes living! Blessings to you both! Luise Dear RT: Your enthusiasm in contagious! Mr. Right is getting a live wire and that’s a huge gift. There are no guarantees. We trust because that’s our nature. Not to trust is a very negative space. It’s so much better to embrace life and whatever it brings rather than to try to write an all-hazard insurance policy against loss that precludes living! Blessings to you both! Luise

]]> By: RT http://www.momresponds.com/419/free-spirit-marriage/#comment-947 RT Tue, 26 Sep 2006 17:59:53 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/419/free-spirit-marriage/#comment-947 Luise, I just love you!!! I have been reading your site (should be working) and cannot stop clicking away. Your advice sounds like it is filled with love and understanding and I tell you, you are a breath of fresh air. I too, enjoy my freedom and am now engaged. It took a HUGE revelation for me to just accept that God sometimes sends Mr. RIGHT to those not seeking Mr. RIGHT because we are so in-tune with ourselves that we are ready to accept His Mr. RIGHT FOR US. I have been dodging my Mr. RIGHT for years (10) due to my past hurt from my parent's divorce. My deep feelings have always been that if my dad could leave us what man wouldn't do the same? Fortunately God allowed me to grow stronger and become a whole person. He rid me of the surface wounds and allowed me to use my father's example as the "what I don't want in a man". God then allowed me to heal so that I could get the education I wanted, travel to the places I wanted, and make friends of every culture, race, and religious affiliation. God showed me that I did not need to have a man complete me but rather one to do the things I enjoyed WITH me. Once I got over what I would loose if I decided to spend my life with Mr. RIGHT, I realized, I was gaining more than I would be loosing. I also had to get past the cycle of love a man, find his faults, and then justify a reason to walk away so I could protect my heart (great advice you gave the other lady too by the way). I have to admit that there are times when I am terrified at what could happen. However, I decided to love really hard with all my heart and if things don't work out--oh well, it won't be easy to get over but at least I would have had a wonderful love experience once in my life. Luise your advice to Jan was on the money and I hope she has a great life with her Mr. RIGHT!!! Luise, I just love you!!! I have been reading your site (should be working) and cannot stop clicking away. Your advice sounds like it is filled with love and understanding and I tell you, you are a breath of fresh air.

I too, enjoy my freedom and am now engaged. It took a HUGE revelation for me to just accept that God sometimes sends Mr. RIGHT to those not seeking Mr. RIGHT because we are so in-tune with ourselves that we are ready to accept His Mr. RIGHT FOR US.

I have been dodging my Mr. RIGHT for years (10) due to my past hurt from my parent’s divorce. My deep feelings have always been that if my dad could leave us what man wouldn’t do the same? Fortunately God allowed me to grow stronger and become a whole person. He rid me of the surface wounds and allowed me to use my father’s example as the “what I don’t want in a man”. God then allowed me to heal so that I could get the education I wanted, travel to the places I wanted, and make friends of every culture, race, and religious affiliation. God showed me that I did not need to have a man complete me but rather one to do the things I enjoyed WITH me.

Once I got over what I would loose if I decided to spend my life with Mr. RIGHT, I realized, I was gaining more than I would be loosing. I also had to get past the cycle of love a man, find his faults, and then justify a reason to walk away so I could protect my heart (great advice you gave the other lady too by the way).

I have to admit that there are times when I am terrified at what could happen. However, I decided to love really hard with all my heart and if things don’t work out–oh well, it won’t be easy to get over but at least I would have had a wonderful love experience once in my life. Luise your advice to Jan was on the money and I hope she has a great life with her Mr. RIGHT!!!

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