Question: Dear Luise: thanks so much for taking your time. To aanswer my question. I am 20 yrs old and my boyfriend is 32, we’ve only been together for 3months and ive noticed he doesnt get turnd on fast and he doesnt wanna have sex often… I dont kno if its because hes been with alot of girls before or is it me? He treats me like a queen but this worrys me..or is it his age?? hes never had kids either. Please help…some people also tell me hes gay but no hes not,hes jealous with me and hes had long term relationships…please help. I.
Answer: Dear I: Of course it worries you. It’s more common than most people realize and it is definitely not about you. It is also not about his age. The fact that you are writing about it indicates that it’s not going to work for you to be the Neglected Queen. Three months is enough for you to know that it’s time to move on. I’m just telling you what you already know. Blessings, Luise