By: Luise

Luise — Sat, 02 Sep 2006 00:54:35 +0000

Dear Erica: I don’t think you are going to be able to “follow your heart” on this one. Your mind is telling you that it’s a “no go”. Your boyfriend’s actions speak for themselves and you are samrt enough to know that you can’t get him to call more often, stay on the line longer or do anything else that would make you feel better. You know what that call was all about no matter what kind of a story he makes up. Tell him that you are not ready to be put on the back-burner just yet…and get back inot circulation! You’re only 16. It’s your time to be front and center! Blessings, Luise

By: Erica

Erica — Fri, 01 Sep 2006 14:37:12 +0000

Dear Luise, I am engaged and in a commited relationship but it seems like I’m in it by myself. A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend starts acting weird. He doesnt realy all as often as he use to. When we do talk its like he tries to rush me off the phone. And when we spend time together his phone rings off the hook. When ever I ask him who it is he says. ” Oh thats nobody”. But the way he says it its like he nervous about something. So, yesterday I had his phone in my hand and it rings. He keeps his phone on vibrate. So, without tellin him I go outside and answer it. To my suprise its a girl, just as I’m about to ask her who she is he grabs it and hangs up! When I ask who she was he makes up this whole story about her being his friends girl lookin for him! Now Tim (my fiance’) says he has never cheated and I believed him up untill now. He thinks I bought his little story and I’m tryin but, something about that doesnt seem right. I have always trusted him, I’ve never had a reason not to. But this is just killing me inside. I realy want to believe his story but then again, I want to do a little investigating. My mother told me to follow my heart but, I thought I might get a second opinion. The thing is I’m only 16! Can you help me please?

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