What Rights Does My Son Have?

Question: Dear Luise: My son and daughter-in-law are getting a divorce. Their baby girl will be 1 year old next month. Right now they are going to a Mediator to get things divided, etc.  In the meantime, my son is living in a hotel or at my house occasionally. She is using the baby as a bargaining chip!  He has legal rights to see the baby on certain days and hours.  She will not let him take the baby if the baby is sleeping.  He can not wait in the house, he has to wait in his car or just leave!  She dictates where he can take the baby, etc. What can he do?  She threatens to call 911 if he does not do what she says, etc. They are supposed to be moved out of the apartment in one month. As I mentioned, she is staying there and he is not. He’s paying for it. She will not do anything to help with this now. The Mediator idea is supposed to help in many ways including costs attorneys, etc. What can my son do now? M.

Answer: Dear M.: I don’t have any legal training. The mediator and attorney do. You son has to put up a big fuss, let them know the cruel and unnecessary treatment his “ex” is giving him and get it straightened out. He has rights and he needs to exercise them. He deserves a lot better than what he’s getting. Blessings, Luise

About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process. She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).
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