http://www.momresponds.com/190/infidelity-blues/ Luise Addresses Your Interests With Wisdom and Love Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:23:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 http://www.momresponds.com/190/infidelity-blues/#comment-924 Luise Sat, 23 Sep 2006 01:05:48 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=190#comment-924 Dear Nancy: That's a tough one because he may still be feeling badly about it and trying to make light of it for himself, not you. Male humor is often seriously baffling for me. And if you tell him it's not funny and it even hurts, that may make things worse. Likewise, I don't think any humor back from you...like changing your voice and whispering, "No, it's Marsha", will help things either. Can you just live with it and focus on the healing that's taking place? That's your best bet. Blessings, Luise Dear Nancy: That’s a tough one because he may still be feeling badly about it and trying to make light of it for himself, not you. Male humor is often seriously baffling for me. And if you tell him it’s not funny and it even hurts, that may make things worse. Likewise, I don’t think any humor back from you…like changing your voice and whispering, “No, it’s Marsha”, will help things either. Can you just live with it and focus on the healing that’s taking place? That’s your best bet. Blessings, Luise

]]> http://www.momresponds.com/190/infidelity-blues/#comment-780 Nancy Wed, 20 Sep 2006 02:29:47 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=190#comment-780 I can relate as my husband too was unfaithful. We are getting through it after two years. There is one thing my husband does though that hurts me a lot. He will make comments such as, "Oh, is that you sweetie?" Then I will speak and he will reply, "Oh, it's you (laughter)." Or if I get into his vehicle he will pretend to hide something suspicious just to get me going. He does not know how deeply this hurts and brings up all the bad times we had when the affair was founded (sort to speak) or maybe he does... I can relate as my husband too was unfaithful. We are getting through it after two years. There is one thing my husband does though that hurts me a lot. He will make comments such as, “Oh, is that you sweetie?” Then I will speak and he will reply, “Oh, it’s you (laughter).” Or if I get into his vehicle he will pretend to hide something suspicious just to get me going. He does not know how deeply this hurts and brings up all the bad times we had when the affair was founded (sort to speak) or maybe he does…

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