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He Doesn’t Act Like He Cares

By on June 18, 2010 in Sexuality

Question: Dear Luise:  I have been living with my boyfriend for the past three months, he is 62 and I am 47. He never wants sex, we hold hands, and kiss, but I miss the sexual contact. He doesnt act like he cares if he ever has sex again. I dont know if I should stay with him, because I dont know if I am ready to give up on sex. Please advise. Oh he says his mind wants it but his body wont cooperate. I dont know if I believe this or not. thank you. L.

Answer: Dear L.: The fact that you are writing to me after being with him only three months suggests to me that it isn’t going to work for you. It’s how it is and if you stay, you are definitely “giving up on sex.” His reasons are not the issue and it doesn’t matter whether you believe him or not, his actions say it all. Blessings, Luise.

About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process. She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).
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