Why Am I Feeling Rejected and Confused?

Question: Dear Luise: My mom left and divorced my dad 10 years ago. My dad whom raised all three sisters and myself, in which I am now 22. My mom whom tries to come in and out, but knows nothing about me, and i dont feel genuinely loves me. I feel this has not bothered me as much until the past month, I am feeling very rejected and confused. I feel even though I may not notice it, it impacts my daily relationships, whether it be with commitment or my everyday friendships?

Answer: Dear M.: It seems to me that if all of this is coming up for you now, it may be time for some serious counseling. That’s a lot of trauma over a long period of time and you might feel much better if you could work through it and let go of as much of it as possible. Blessings, Luise

About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process. She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).

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