By: S.

S. — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:16:31 +0000

If this was a bad dream Id understand. Ive said to my Mom “what did I do” besides all the times 100% of the times Im left out of my family get togethers, the ones which are just for fun to party down at what once was the get away place Id go to any time I wanted to without an invation as well as planned multiple family member get togethers. This all happened very suddenly with me having to live with consquenses for the last ten years. What started as a series of bad medical catestrophic events to my wife and business and medical 100% disabiliy of myself as well as my wife, ended with if this was a NFL game my Mom would have been thrown out of the game for piling on. Sorry for the (syonon)but do to the lack of an explanation from my Mother for her to start off by saying ” your 55 years old I dont have to invite you out for dinner or take you down where I go for weekends your old enough to take care of yourself. Your not my responsibility.” Whats been impossible is to have a conversation with my Mom. To sit down at the table and say whats on her mind and mine. Instead, Ive given her all the time and cosideration and respect she deserves as an 80 year old mom , grandmother and plain old human being. Ive sat by and watched and kept my mouth shut not to make any disturbaces for 10 years because of what I know is whats behind and right up front in your face the reason for my Mom to do everything she has done, Number one is my two beautiful just about perfect children, not just children but daughters! Daughter being the key word. My Mom, and now is where I d like to say my Mom is so spoiled and used to getting everything she wants no matter what. A father who coulodnt say no, to a husband who agreed with her to originally to try and try again for one baby as long as it was a girl four sons later. The marriage had gone south, due to his fooling around with neighbors wives and others witch she became bitter divorced him and moved out of the state which I think she did just to hurt him back by making it difficult for him to see his 4 boys, especially hurt by this was me. I think I may of been his favorite and only one who missed him and after high school went back to NYC where he lived. After a year he died in a dragic accident smoking in bed. Without going on and on what happened to me or how my mom took it then and now may harbour bad feelings toward me. Lets say I did that and what seems to be a key factor, back in 1970 my gilrfriend of mine and I wanted to raise money to do something like go to a 2 day rock concert maybe I dont rember but I do remember we took several things from the store room one being and old modal ship wich we sold for $40 40 years latter my mom says she doesnt trust me because I stole her boat, that has been how she has explained to me and also one more thing 10 years ago where I begin in the begininning of this responce, when the Illness begin also my businss was lost along with my house and little did I know then my daughter were lost to. Well through all this I spent 150,000 dollars my IRA 20,000 of money put away for collge for my daughters and now I had zero income I was depert and sold s cast iron lamp for $75 and because there was another my mom kept saying how could you take my lamp and sell it and now Im left with one nopt a set of very valuble lamps, not never was but maybe value is in the eye of the beholder. Now add selling the lamp into selling the boat now Ive developed a pattern and Im not only not to be trusted but Ived been leftout and what amounts to a reason to disown me. S.

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