http://www.momresponds.com/160/mamas-boy/ Luise Addresses Your Interests With Wisdom and Love Thu, 04 Dec 2008 03:21:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 http://www.momresponds.com/160/mamas-boy/#comment-5250 Luise Sat, 08 Nov 2008 18:23:46 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=160#comment-5250 Dear M. You can't change him. That's who he is and how he is and you either have to figure out how to fit into the existing family structure or you move on. The person you love has qualities you like and qualities you don't like. That's just the way it is. It's not your job to decide that he's not OK and to embark on a program to mold him into who and how you wish he was. In the first place, he can't do it for very long. And in the second place if you love him it's the whole package or you are in love with your expectations. Take a good close look. And please remember that not only is it a fact that he can't be perfect but you can't be either. Blessings, Luise Dear M. You can’t change him. That’s who he is and how he is and you either have to figure out how to fit into the existing family structure or you move on. The person you love has qualities you like and qualities you don’t like. That’s just the way it is. It’s not your job to decide that he’s not OK and to embark on a program to mold him into who and how you wish he was. In the first place, he can’t do it for very long. And in the second place if you love him it’s the whole package or you are in love with your expectations. Take a good close look. And please remember that not only is it a fact that he can’t be perfect but you can’t be either. Blessings, Luise

]]> http://www.momresponds.com/160/mamas-boy/#comment-5247 M. Sat, 08 Nov 2008 06:32:40 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=160#comment-5247 I love this guy. We have been best friends for the past 3 years. But he works for his brother that he runs. He controls his life and belittles my fiend. On top of that, he is very close with his mom. He lives in her building and whenever we go out to eat his mom comes most of the time. I can't get my friend to commit to me and leave his mom. He is extremely close to his entire family. His aunt too. He just wont cut the apron springs. But he's my best friend and I cant see my life without him. I love him SO much!!! How can I change him and get him to love me and leave his family? M. I love this guy. We have been best friends for the past 3 years. But he works for his brother that he runs. He controls his life and belittles my fiend. On top of that, he is very close with his mom. He lives in her building and whenever we go out to eat his mom comes most of the time. I can’t get my friend to commit to me and leave his mom. He is extremely close to his entire family. His aunt too. He just wont cut the apron springs. But he’s my best friend and I cant see my life without him. I love him SO much!!! How can I change him and get him to love me and leave his family? M.

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