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Now She’s Refusing to Divorce Him

By on June 2, 2009 in Relationship Problem Advice

Question: Dear Luise: Me and my lover are very close. We have every thing perfect, but he is already married and has 1 daughter of 7 years. He don’t have any terms with his wife for last 1 and half year. He want a divorce. Firstly she was agree as her behavior was very bad with him but now denying do give just to make him trouble. We love each other very much. What should I do? Due to this we are very much tensed. It’s difficult to live without him. Please help me. S.

Answer: Dear S.: There is very little you can do. It is up to them to work it out, one way or the other.
It is their marriage and their daughter. You are not part of any of that.

I don’t know where you live or what the laws are there, but where I live if one person wants a divorce, the other can’t stop it from happening.

This is one of those situations that is very difficult for everyone involved, including his little girl. You have no choice that I can see, except to wait it out. Blessings, Luise

About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process. She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).
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