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He’s Changed Toward Me

By on April 9, 2009 in Relationship Problem Advice

Question: Dear Luise: How do I get my boyfriend closer to me? How do I know if he really loves me? I don’t understand my boyfriend any more. He has changed toward me and he still tells me he loves me. J.

Answer: Dear J.: We can’t bring people closer. They do whatever they do and that is entirely up to them. And it is very often hard to really understand others. They often don’t understand themselves. Sometimes it isn’t what they say but what they do that tells us where they are coming from.

Just be yourself and see what happens. He may not be the one for you if you are experiencing stress and feel unsure about where the relationship is headed. Blessings, Luise

About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process. She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).
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