http://www.momresponds.com/103/hating-housework/ Luise Addresses Your Interests With Wisdom and Love Thu, 04 Dec 2008 03:32:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 http://www.momresponds.com/103/hating-housework/#comment-704 Luise Thu, 17 Aug 2006 18:28:53 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=103#comment-704 Dear Jennifer: Get some help! A good counselor can help you to get your mother out of your head and out of your house. You have good insight regarding where this came from. Why continue it if you are miserable and hate the mass? You deserve to be as comfortable and content as the next person. Blessings, Luise Dear Jennifer: Get some help! A good counselor can help you to get your mother out of your head and out of your house. You have good insight regarding where this came from. Why continue it if you are miserable and hate the mass? You deserve to be as comfortable and content as the next person. Blessings, Luise

]]> http://www.momresponds.com/103/hating-housework/#comment-697 Jennifer Anttila Tue, 15 Aug 2006 23:05:46 +0000 http://www.momresponds.com/?p=103#comment-697 I too have major issues regarding housework. My mother put such a stong emphasis on housework, it was considered a condition for her love. She would kick me out of the house if I didn't rince my cereal bowl, or keep my room clean. Even now as an adult she comes to my home and is disgusted by the littlest sign of filth. I use to be a clean person, but I have now completely given up. I refuse to clean unless it is absolutly nessassary. I am overwhelmed with guilt and feel bad about myself, yet I cannot bring myself to do housework. It's like a phobia for me now. I too have major issues regarding housework. My mother put such a stong emphasis on housework, it was considered a condition for her love. She would kick me out of the house if I didn’t rince my cereal bowl, or keep my room clean. Even now as an adult she comes to my home and is disgusted by the littlest sign of filth. I use to be a clean person, but I have now completely given up. I refuse to clean unless it is absolutly nessassary. I am overwhelmed with guilt and feel bad about myself, yet I cannot bring myself to do housework. It’s like a phobia for me now.

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